The process is really quite simple.
Get clarity on:
WHO you are
WHAT you want and
HOW to get what you want!
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"Loneliness is the only real poverty that persists despite the most impressive of achievements.
If you are tired of trying to convince yourself of what's important, it is perhaps time to devote yourself to what really matters - relationships!" - Coach Katherin
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Are you Single and serious about finding your Life Partner?
Are you dating but not finding that special someone?
Are you sincere about creating a happy and lasting relationship?
Working with me, you will gain:
***The means to quickly establish and maintain a loving relationship with someone who is just right for you.
***A new attitude about romance when you understand there is no lack of quality dating prospects.
***A checklist that empowers you to determine the kind of mate and relationship that will make you happy.
***A new dating paradigm that yields an abundance of fun, positive, and promising dates.
***The knowledge and skills to build a healthy and lasting relationship.
***On-going opportunities for meeting quality, available people in a safe and fun setting.
***A home environment that looks beautiful, feels vibrant, and attracts true love.
Let's get started!
So... WHO are you?
- What are your values?
- What is your life purpose?
- What are your significant personality traits and how do they effect your relationships?
- How does your past history influence your relationships?
- Are you really ready to find your Life Partner? Take this short quiz to find out.
And... WHAT do you want?
This is the #1 question of coaches - and a great question to ask yourself regularly!
- What is your Vision of what you really want for your life and relationship?
- What are your non-negotiable Requirements that must be met for a relationship to work for you?
If ONE is missing the relationship will fail!
- What are your Functional Needs that will result in a problem if unmet? Issues are unmet needs.
- What are your Emotional Needs that must be met for you to feel loved?
- What kind of person would be compatible with what you really want?
These questions should be easy to answer, right? Well, not always. Here is a simple process to assist you.
Step 1. Write down your DREAM MATE list. What qualities are you looking for in a mate? What values? What common interests? What physical qualities are important to you? Note: this list must be written for you to get the clarity you need.
Step 2. Write down your REQUIREMENTS in a relationship. What are your non-negotiables that must be satisfied for the relationship to be successful? Write down at least four requirements. Note: these are different than wants, needs and desires for the relationship.
Step 3. Re-visit your Dream Mate List. Are you all of these qualities? Identify the gaps between what you want in a mate and who you are in this moment.
Step 4. Do your work. Narrow the gaps between who you are and who you are looking for. Become a happy, successful single first - then look for your Dream Mate. Otherwise, you may be looking for someone to "complete" you or "rescue" you.
Now... HOW to get what you want?
- How to "Live Your Vision", even when single?
- How to meet the Life Partner that is right for you?
- How to overcome your fear, shyness, or low self-esteem?
- How to know when a relationship is right for you?
When you know WHO you are and WHAT you want, the HOW becomes very simple. The Law of Attraction will get into action! Get clear on WHO you are and WHAT you want. Keep enjoying your life, keep your eyes open, and the love of your life will show up!
Not sure WHERE to find your Life Partner? Understand the 4 Levels of Attraction Venues! Remember, when you're Single, every moment is an opportunity to meet the Love of Your Life! Make the most of each moment.
Want help with this process? Give me a call or email me to schedule a free 30 minute coaching session and receive my "Attitudes of Love" card - free!
Warmly,
Coach Katherin, The Dating Coach
What is Coaching???
"Coaching" is a skill set defined by Thomas Leonard in the mid-1980s. It is a process based on the client's goals, and involves change in thoughts, attitudes and behaviors. Coaching is a powerful relationship designed to forward and enhance the lifelong process of human learning, effectiveness, and fulfillment - to literally uncover the unconscious habits, internalized patterns, and desires of the individual. A simple, unique, revolutionary and extremely effective proactive alliance, with coach and client working together to meet the needs of the client, thus enabling them to create a life and relationships in which they achieve beyond what they had previously only dared imagine.
One more thing - when you find a "potential partner", be sure to ask yourself the
Three Marriage Questions!
If You Can't Answer YES to These 3 Questions, DON'T MARRY The Person You're Dating.
1. Do I respect this person enough that I want to be more like him/her?
Respect is crucial in any relationship, particularly marriage. The litmus test for respect is determining if you want to emulate this person. What qualities do you respect in this person? Would you be happy if your child turns out like him/her?
2. If his/her personality and habits stay exactly as they are today, will I be happy 20, 30, 40 years down the road?
Never marry potential. If you can't be happy with the person the way he or she is now, don't get married. Don't expect to change another person. You'll be frustrated and he/she'll be resentful. Can you accept this person exactly as he/she, for the rest of your life?
3. Do we share common life goals and priorities?
Sure, chemistry and common interests are important. However, make sure you share the deeper level of connection that comes through sharing life goals. To avoid growing apart after marriage, figure out what you're living for while you're single and then find someone who independently came to the same conclusion as you.
A soul mate is really a goal mate - two people who ultimately share the same understanding of life's purpose and therefore share the same priorities, values and goals.
The majority of marriages today end in divorce. Those who answer "yes" to each of these 3 questions have a good chance in succeeding to build a happy marriage. Those who cannot answer "yes" to all 3 questions are likely entering a marriage that will leave them disappointed, unhappy and single again.
So, be clear, be smart and above all - have fun with the process of dating and attracting your Life Partner!
Need help? Call or email me for your free 30 minute coaching session. Also receive my "Attitudes of Love" card - how to win the emotional and mind games of love -- yours free!
Get started today to
Live the Life You Love
with the Love of Your Life!
Enjoy!
Coach Katherin, The Dating Coach
